This blog is where I process out loud without an audience I'm performing for.
I'm autistic and ADHD. By day I do technical work; by night I try to understand why the emotional stuff never resolves as cleanly as the technical stuff does. Most of what's here is me working that out in public.
How to read it
- Start here — five pieces that show what this place is
- communication — explaining, over-explaining, being misunderstood
- relationships — repair, power, care, what people owe each other
- mental-health — bandwidth, fear, hope, the tired kind of days
- audhd — the wiring underneath all of it
- projects — things I've made with my hands
Nothing here is advice. It's a record.
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